About Me: Ex military, looking for intense erotic/exotic encounters that stretch the limits of normalcy. Into anything that gives pleasure, though may have a price at times. NOT a thug or swagger kind of guy. More the silent but serious type. Very disciplined and educated. Appear normal, in public, coat and tie, or jeans and tee. Blend in anywhere. But behind the doors, no holds barred. I believe MY business and those with whom I experience is just that. NO ONE else. Have much experience in clandestine ops. I don't have such a frail ego to bruise or an agenda of items to prove. Have multiple degrees and PhD in Physics & design creative and innovative devices machines pleasure toys and ways to restrain and challenge the boundaries. Not to mention my military experience with ropes knots chains and restraints. Please be able to speak in complete sentences with at least an 8th grade vocabulary (rarity it seems in this area). Unfortunately I cant type to save my life!!! (all the letters are mixed up) I am 5-10 and 190 lbs.. and ANYTHING to do with controlling another person. Both physical and mental. I did serve four tours overseas in middle east. I am very clean cut, trim and good hygiene. I demand good hygiene in those I choose. I am DDF DDF DDF don't smoke (you may, it doesn't offend me). Looking to branch out more here in CC. Ironically, the middle east is full of underground kink, very hardcore. Experienced this lifestyle in Dubai and Bahrain, as well as Melbourne and Sydney. It is much easier to approach and discuss there as the taboo, while still just that, it is also accepted freedom of choice and lifestyle. Also, this pompous attitude many in the states have, an almost privileged persona, is not a factor.